I Don't think that disrespect punishments are too lenient, I got muted for saying "Fuck you", which I think should not be a punishable offence, but I guess other people might think otherwise.
In my opinion I don't believe the rules are that strict, although they can be annoying at times, they aren't that strict and many staff members will unmute if you didn't mean something in the way you have been muted for. Many staff members are very lenient on the rules and will let most people off with verbals or chat warnings, they are simple rules to follow and most of the times are pretty easy to remeber, /blacklistcheck <word> can tell you if you can say a certain word or not, and its very easy to not break the rules, just dont go overboard and you should be good! -1 Have a great day my friend!